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  • In Memoriam

    He’s dying and I just turned twenty seven. Wrapped up in wires like an octopus caught in a net, He smiles, asks if I’ve had a boyfriend yet. Well, I had one. We broke up. It wasn't safe for me to come around. I’m not a Brahmin after all. After a year, his parents had caught on. I knew it when they looked at me Like I was going to dig through their pure gold heirlooms And take home the life they had planned for him. That’s what my first love was., too. There were no words for it back then, Just summer nights, the cowshed in the fields, the fireflies’ magic show. He couldn’t fall asleep next to the boy he loved. He heard the dog barking, followed it outside Where it had crept all the way around the veranda. He called out and the stream called back. It was a woman’s voice ringing in his ears. The voice of the river; guilt, that buried itself in his abdomen. The tumor had been growing for the past ten years, But he recognised it as the feeling he carried with him his whole life. In the hospital, the voice softened to provide comfort, As everything returns to the earth from which it came. My parents' marriage certificate remains framed on their bedside table, in lieu of a wedding photograph because they were never able to have a ceremony. In other words, they belong to different castes. The presence and impact of the Caste hierarchy is probably never going to be erased from Indian communities and society. Its chains weigh down our education, our politics, our morals, our relationships. But that is not to say that people are incapable of rising above it and seeing their peers, friends and neighbors for who they are before any other label – humans. — So I like to think of this poem as an ode to my parents’ stubborn, spiteful, impulsive and immensely brave relationship. As told from my father’s perspective, it is also an obituary for his struggle in coming to terms with his sexuality. His childhood and now adulthood has always moved me to desperately question how do we live with the ghosts of our own selves – every version of ourself we have once been (not dead, just gone). Editors: Rajeshwari T. Image source: Unsplash

  • I hope this finds you well.

    My Inbox scroll up to update MAIL@DAEMON 9:00 Subject: Message Failed to Send Message: Message to Ellen Failed to Deliver. —------------------------------------------------------ Susan 8:20 Subject: Meeting Notes 5/15 Message: meeting notes for the most recent… —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen 7:15 Subject: hope this finds you well. Message: This is my last message —------------------------------------------------------ Susan 5:30 PM Subject: Meeting Notes 5/2 Message: meeting notes for the most recent… —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen May 12th Subject: its over. Message: I don’t even know where to start… —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen May 2nd Subject: what are we? Message: Hey, can we talk? —------------------------------------------------------ Allan April 30th Subject: Buzzfeed, have you seen this? Message: THIS article is CRAZY —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen April 15th Subject: Love you <3 Message: Hey, I just want you to know that no matter… —------------------------------------------------------ Fred April 3rd Subject: How have you been? Message: Can we catch up? —------------------------------------------------------ Beth April 1st Subject: Meeting Notes 3/29 + we should talk Message: Meeting notes + 2 weeks notice —------------------------------------------------------ John March 15th Subject: 15% THIS WEEKEND DO NOT MISS Message: IDES OF MARCH SALE —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen March 3rd Subject: Photos from the weekend <3 Message: From the weekend Trip :) —------------------------------------------------------ Jay February 22nd Subject: Catching Up Message: Hey! Let's grab lunch! —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen February 17th Subject: Movie! Message: Got us tickets to see the new …. —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen February 14th Subject: Plans ;) Message: Can’t wait to see you later! <3 —------------------------------------------------------ Beth February 13th Subject: Meeting Notes 2/12 Message: Please check the meeting notes from… —------------------------------------------------------ John February 13 Subject: 50% BOGO Flowers! Message: VALENTINE'S DAY LAST MINUTE SALE… —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen February 12th Subject: Coffee? <3 Message: Meet me at the cafe ;) —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen February 10th Subject: Reservations: 7pm Message: Dinner at place downtown! 7pm! —------------------------------------------------------ Jay February 3rd Subject: Dinner! Message: Hey! How have you been? —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen January 29th Subject: Dinner? Message: Feels like forever… let's make dinner plans… —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen January 20th Subject: Lunch! Message: Let's meet at the cafe down… —------------------------------------------------------ Beth January 15th Subject: Meeting Notes 1/14 Message: Here are the notes from the investor —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen January 5th Subject: Great seeing you! Message: It was wonderful grabbing coffee ;)... —------------------------------------------------------ Ellen January 1st Subject: Coffee? Message: So glad we met! Let's grab coffee… Editors: Marie H., Amelia P., Joyce S. Image source: Unsplash

  • Sunflowers

    Sunflowers curl over a sea of seeds. Sprouting and growing, they reach the surface thinking they will bask in the spotlight - but they burn, crack, and sigh. The sea of seeds (now full-grown flowers) long for a life just like their founder’s but they suffer from the loss of their life’s power: No air to breathe, no water to sip - just flames suffocating (now they’re hung with a drip). The ones who survive gaze at their meadow: Once oh so green, now anything but. The boiling morning and dry midnight will only get worse with dawn; tomorrow’s seeds and tomorrow’s sprouts will never be able to find a way out. Their birth won’t be a celebration - their birth will lead to inevitable self-destruction. Today’s destruction will never be solved if today's flowers leave the problems unresolved. Sunflowers curl over a sea of seeds; Some sleeping, and some fighting for their needs. Editors: Rajeshwari T., Amber T. Image source: Unsplash

  • Ripe

    TW: self-image, fears of Sexual Assault. When I started to develop as a woman, I also developed the fear of being one in public. I would always wear a rashguard and shorts over my bathing suit, and I avoided tank tops and tight fit clothing. I didn't like wearing spandex, sports bras as an active top, or even strapless homecoming dresses in fear that something could happen. When I got my first training bra, to me, it felt less like the cage that most women see it as and more like a shield. I liked wearing it. I felt protected. And for a while, I was able to hide what I was becoming. As I got older, I got rid of the rashguard and swim shorts so I'd look like the cool teenager my friends were turning into. Girls my age loved beach days and recreating cute bikini photos they found on Pinterest. I always felt weird posing– putting my hands on my hips, framing what I felt should be covered. I never felt pretty in those photos. Sometimes my friends would confess that they didn’t either, but we posted them anyway. As middle school approached, everything was developing except for the boys. I was growing. I could no longer use a training bra and all bras lost their power of concealment. I was becoming a woman, but this time, everybody knew it. But things didn’t end there; on the day before swim practice, I learned I had bigger issues than having to swim breaststroke in front of a boy. When I saw what was happening, I remember being doubtful that the crimson tide came in. I called my mom to confirm my dreaded diagnosis, describing to her what had happened and explaining that “it hasn’t stopped.” I was right. The traditional function of a woman was active in me. I knew what it was, what it meant, and what could happen. My mom had taught me how to prepare and my dad warned me of the power I’d gained. Through these different approaches to ‘the talk,’ my parents instilled in me a fear of what could leak and what others could do. As more of my moons came and more women were crowned, I became comfortable with my changes– and so did the other girls at school. Periods became less of a shameful secret and more of a clandestine camaraderie. We share the powerful abilities that our bodies have and we had no control of. But after a couple of years of secret freedom, the boys caught up and the men were awake. At their rouse, ‘no’s were shoved into and over our bodies. At school, male speakers instructed that we girls always say ‘no,’ as if we were the ones who would have the final say. Girls weren’t allowed to wear anything provocative in order to keep the boys at bay. Even on the hot field days, a one piece bathing suit and a pair of running shorts didn’t suffice but required a t-shirt thrown over in order for us to run around with the half naked boys. While I hated the blame that our bodies earned us, I was happy with the clothing regulations of my school. This way, I wasn’t the only one who preferred that their world be covered. College made me feel the opposite of how my high school made me feel. The male gaze felt ever more present, there, active. But also, it felt like it was meant to be there. With going out, sorority rushes, and the emergency light boxes lighting my path home, it all felt objective. It felt unfair that we had a freedom to dress how we wanted now, but how that same freedom had the possibility of getting us cornered. In a second semester February, I wrote in my journal: “I don’t know when I learned what it was, but for some reason whenever I’m around full grown men, I always feel like there is a possibility of it happening. No matter who they are, I always have this feeling.” Even now, feeling sexy is always overruled with fear– it feels like I am giving myself up for predation. It is a corrupt undertone that was planted out of safety. The gift that was manipulated into a curse. I always loved being a girl, but I think I’ll always feel reluctant to be a woman. Image credit: First Moon Original Art Piece by Aubrey Meiling Editor: Cathay L.

  • mother's love

    There’s food on the table when Maya gets home, but none that she can eat. Her head is tucked where her mother won’t notice the imperceptible guilt lingering on her face, and her fingers gnaw into the straps of her bag with the hopes that it’ll keep her from saying something she shouldn’t. She pauses at the doorway, a few feet away from where her mother is laying the table with the food she loves—aloo paratha with fresh chana—a dish that she makes only as a reward because of how much it motivates her daughter. But there’s nothing to be proud of. Nothing. Maya forgets to move, almost as though she has been cemented to the ground. She watches her mother with longing eyes, as though fearing that another step closer would ruin the relationship she has with the only one in her life who has ever cared. She can’t do this. Throwing everything away for something that’s seemingly so ignorable in the grand scheme of things, is that really how things should go? She has known it for a while—from the moment she looked at a girl and thought for the first time, ‘would she like me if I was a boy?’—that she set herself down a path that would inevitably end in pain. “Why are you standing there?” her mother asks, turning to face her with a wide smile on her face. She adjusts her dupatta before it slips off her shoulders, draping it around her neck. Colours of a melting sunset seep into the room, washing the walls in deep red like her mother’s mango achar. Even as her mother leans her hand against her hip in her usual, relaxed fashion, Maya can’t help but feel worse. She knows she shouldn’t lie to her. Though, is it really a lie if she just doesn’t say anything at all? Leave it to time and hope it’ll all go away? “Asho re, asho. Change your clothes and eat before the paratha gets cold.” Maya steps out of her shoes and nudges them to the side. She takes a slow step forward, easing her band out of her tied hair to let it fall on her shoulders. She maintains her quiet distance from her mother, walking against the walls like a shadow. As she observes her mother making her rounds around in the kitchen, bathed in the mellow light of the sun, her heart clenches. Everything she wants to say comes bubbling up her throat like effervescence, even if she tries to shove it back down: Hey, Ma, I kissed a girl. I know you said you’d be happiest at my wedding because you hope it’ll end up better than you and Papa did. I’m sorry that won’t happen. Are you angry? I’m sorry. Maya averts her gaze, muscles aching with the threat of tears. “Special occasion?” she asks softly, mustering a forced smile on her face if it makes her sound all the more believable. Her mother pauses in the middle of her path back to the kitchen, and glances over her shoulder, at what Maya hoped was a convincing act. “What? You forgot already?” Maya gulps, searching her mind for anything she’s done that might be worth a celebration. Conscious of her mother’s unwavering gaze, she straightens her collar and fidgets with the seams of her uniform. An awkward laugh escapes her lips as she turns away, deciding that this is a situation that’s only going to ruin the night for both of them. “Your exams finished today, right? Or is there another exam tomorrow that you didn’t tell me about?” she questions, stopping Maya in her tracks before she can scurry to the bathroom to change. “Oh,” she says, trying to dodge her mother’s hands when they reach out to brush her hair. “No, I just had so much fun with my friends after the exam that I forgot about it.” Her mother makes a face at the excuse, but doesn’t ponder on it for too long. As soon as she has the chance to breathe out of her mother’s grasp, Maya drags her hand against her lips in a feeble attempt to wipe the bitter taste of a secret she wishes she didn’t have to keep. Maya sits at the dinner table once she changes, and she does everything in her power to avoid her mother’s persistent questions. She maintains her weak smile as she looks into her mother’s eyes, picking and choosing answers from her brain that won’t give her mother a chance to figure out how she spent the latter half of her day. In front of her, her food remains untouched and the world has gone cold. At some point, she can’t bear to keep tossing the chana around with her spoon and just sits back in her chair. For the most part, her mother’s questions are easy to answer. Do you think you can get 80% for your exam? Was there any question you found difficult? Are you going to be at the top of your class again? Then she asks, “Who did you spend your day with?” And Maya can only be grateful she has an empty stomach. Maya’s nothing like herself in the week to come. She roams like a ghost in her own home, walking with her head lowered in shame and shoulders slumped forward, doing her best to stay out of her mother’s questioning gaze. She’s undeniably perceptive when it comes to her only daughter, and it’s impossible not to notice the subtle changes that unfurl as Maya becomes a shell of the girl she once was. Gradually, she finds Maya coming home an hour or two later under the excuse of extracurriculars, or going right to bed when she does return on time. Maya doesn’t answer when she’s asked. She musters a small smile, promises it’ll be okay, then acts as though everything that happened is gone with the wind. At some point, there’s less guilt and more sadness on her face when she comes home, sits down at the dinner table, and doesn’t finish another meal. All of it has become a predictable routine at this point, and even as the portions get smaller by the day, Maya’s stomach doesn’t leave much room for anything after digesting her sour feelings. Needless to say, her mother notices the change—the way the rims of her eyes are red and swollen from crying, her hands shake around the spoon in her hands, and the obvious sullenness in everything she does. Did you get your test results back? No. Did something happen? Nothing. You’ll tell me if something is wrong, right? … Right? …Goodnight, Ma. When Maya leaves the bathroom after a long shower, she finds her mother seated on her bed with her hands intertwined over her lap. Her bed is neat, almost eerily so, with not a single wrinkle on her sheets apart from the creases where her mother’s seated. She pauses by the bathroom door, pulling the towel down to her shoulders as she observes her expression, darkened by the dimly-illuminated room. Outside, the sun has already sunk into the horizon and the once-vermillion sky is as dark as soot, leaving no light in the room apart from the flickering ceiling light. Maya’s heart thrums at her fingertips as she inches closer, only recognising too late that the phone beside her mother is her own. “Ma—” the words leave her mouth with a sharp exhale. “How long were you going to keep it a secret?” she asks, lifting the phone. Plastered across the screen are several notifications for missed calls and an eventual one that indicates the calls were picked up. Maya’s blood runs cold. Her arms fall to her side as she notices the look of disappointment in her mother’s eyes, her heart squeezing with regret. All at once, she wishes she could go back in time and do everything all over again. She wouldn’t befriend the pretty girl from her class and fall in love with her, they wouldn’t kiss, and she wouldn’t feel so guilty in front of her mother. Tears gather in her eyes as she musters, “I don’t know.” “Why?” her mother asks, and before she can continue, Maya starts crying. The towel slips off her shoulders as she lifts her arms to her face, trying to do something between frantically wiping her tears away and hiding in embarrassment. “Oh, beta,” her mother coos as she places the phone aside to hold her daughter. Her mother wraps an arm around her and pulls her into a tender embrace. “I’m sorry, Ma,” Maya apologises between sobs. “I’m sorry for disappointing you. I know you wanted to see me happy with a boy, but I don’t know how to do it. I really tried to stop it. I tried to break things off with her but none of it was working out and everything just got messed up—” “Maya,” her mother hums, placing a hand over her head. She pulls her daughter against her chest, where she hears the steady beating of her mother’s heart. “Your friend told me everything. I’m not angry.” Maya’s body stiffens at her mother’s words. “You’re not?” she mumbles as tears continue to spill out of her eyes, soaking her shirt in the process. Her lips fall agape as she pulls away to look at her mother’s expression, searching for any hint that she might be joking—instead, there’s sincerity. The faint light from the ceiling catches in her eyes, glossing over hazel brown like a calm water surface. Her chest is still sore, and her hands are still trembling, but for some reason, that fear feels conquerable now. “Really?” “Really,” her mother promises. “I’m your mother, Maya. The title of ‘Ma’ isn’t earned so easily. For nine months, you were a part of me. You ate the same things as me, drank the same things as me. Even after you became your own person, I cared for you every waking moment of our shared life. How could I see you so sad, hm? Everything I have done so far was to make you happy. Did you think one thing like this could ruin all of it? I can’t say I understand this completely, but this doesn’t change the fact that I love you. I’ll love you always.” Maya’s face burns again. She wraps her arms around her mother in a warm hug. “Ma…” she sobs as she buries her face in her mother’s chest, sparing no strength to hold her. Her mother chuckles fondly as she holds her daughter, stroking her hair. Although the room has gotten humid and unbearably warm, with her mother’s love, somehow, it doesn’t feel so bad.

  • 5 reasons i hated therapy

    5 reasons I hated therapy*: When my therapist diagnosed me with depression, it surprised everyone but me. I had felt the sadness in my stomach grow heavier, more viscous. When it finally leaked from the carefully contained chamber of my mind, leading to my first failed math test, my mother booked me an appointment with a professional. #1 I hated opening up. It went against my instincts. I was used to tucking my feelings under caffeine rushes, eyeliner, and choppy poetry that refused to roll off of the tongue. I couldn’t stand the vulnerability that came with articulating emptiness without the layer of protection provided by artistry. Stripped clean of metaphors, the things I thought about myself were hideous, terrifying to speak and even worse to listen to. The thing about growing up as the eldest daughter in a Bangladeshi household (i.e. a household that is loud and demands things of you loudly) is that you make it a habit to be quiet. And being coaxed out of it? It feels like breaking a fast, the first sip of water glorious, but after you’re already suffocatingly full. #2 She’d give me homework. A chart to map my mental health over the week: How would you rate your mood out of 10? What are you thinking/feeling/doing when you cry? I started journaling, miles of raw stream of consciousness, sometimes tear-stained, till I abruptly ran out of steam. I started practicing math too, which had become so central to my anxiety that I had to avoid it. When I got back the next test with a perfect score, I felt this staggering sense of relief. My therapist had told me my sense of self worth shouldn’t depend on my academic performance, and of course it shouldn’t – but I realized in that moment that it gave me some semblance of control. #3 It used up my weekends. It was only an hour on Saturdays if time is only counted in minutes. But from inside the pile of awful memories that I had to drag like dirty clothes into each session, it felt like forever. Therapy meant dragging the worst points out of every week and laying them out for dissection. I’d begin to enjoy things again, eating, reading, and playing guitar. But after Saturday mornings, it was hard to remember where I was and that I was supposed to be past the storm. I was supposed to be able to see the light. #4 It was so expensive. The guilt followed me around. After every session, I would question if it was worth it. No matter how often my mother told me it was. In Bangladesh, mental health resources are difficult to come by, and the result was I was sure that if I had gotten better at hiding the sadness, I wouldn’t need to be here at all. #5 My parents tried, but they didn’t completely understand. My mother’s guilt was heavy around her, and my father’s was sharp. Forever a man of science, he didn’t believe in what he couldn’t see, and I never cried where people were watching. He talked about it in the brusque, dismissive manner of men hearing things they don’t want to hear, but he stayed near, a solid presence, and hugged me goodnight. My mother tried to hold me all the time and asked how I was feeling and apologized incessantly. It hurt them that I was hurting, and it hurt me that they were hurting, and so, I saw it through. So that I could tell them I’d be okay, and hopefully believe it. * +1 reason I didn’t: I aced my math exams later that year, but that isn’t the point. I also got my father to tell me he loved me. Multiple times. Over and over. Editor: Sam L.

  • Summer Morning

    Summer morning comes like Rabbit leaping out of his burrowed den, whiskers twitching, feet kicking back silt and sand as he bounds toward a fresh earth. The trees wear their new green clothes, leaves waving softly as though beckoning the cicadas out of their dens, calling on them to sing their cacophonous chorus in what is a sure sign of the season. The south of China promises only grace and humidity this time of year, and everywhere there are rice fields so massive the hills look like they are melting, layers of crop and alleyways of water sweating off the terraced grass. Nestled in between the towering striations are villages with thatched roofs where the farmers live, going barefoot out the door and sloshing knee-deep in the water, threshing by hand or sickle once the grains turn yellow, morning and afternoon until the crane resting one-legged in the field retires and a sunset bleeds over the horizon, soft beige and blazing orange mixing like custard and egg yolk. The evening gallops by, and a rice paddy snake slithers in search of fish and frogs. The newly released cicadas, perched a few miles over on a tall tree, will start their chorus anew. Villagers meander their way around town as the last stitch of light disappears from the sky’s edges. Doors creak shut and incense is lighted, the fumes blanketing the remaining starchy scents of bao and pork dumplings. Here, it is impossible to tell the time if not for the cycles of moon and mud, the constant of dust and dew that keeps Rabbit in time with his steps. The stars twinkle on, and the rice stalks stretch to the moon, the grass colored fortune-emerald with hope. Editors: Quill L. & Sydney O. Image Source: Sam Balye, Unsplash

  • The Recipe for Connection

    Growing up with a Newar father and a white, American-born mother meant my father was solely responsible for imparting his Newar heritage. He made attempts to pass on traditions and language, though I imagine those attempts were inconsistent given the absence of any nearby Newar family or a local Newar community. By and large, my father shared his culture with me through Newar food and the accompanying values; To serve food to the elders before anyone else is to show respect. To make use of an entire ingredient and leave no waste is to honor the labor and land that went toward producing the ingredient. To eat a traditional meal prepared by your father each night is to receive a form of unconditional love. As I’ve grown older, cooking has become not only my most tangible connection to my heritage, but it is one of few instances when for a brief moment, I can access a window into my father’s past; we stand side-by-side, time suspended as the task at hand anchors our feet to the kitchen floor while our hearts and minds are set free to wander out of the kitchen to a more vulnerable space: He chops garlic, onions, daikon, and cabbage to prepare the momo filling, simultaneously instructing me on the best technique for shredding ginger. I shred the ginger, listening and waiting for an intermission. When he pauses his instructions, his focus scattered by the sputtering pot of browning garlic and onions to which he adds a blend of peppery spices, I have the perfect opportunity to pose a question. I begin with a simple question. Something to ease us into this conversational journey: “Who taught you to make momos?” As he adds the ginger, cabbage, and daikon into the pot, he gives a vague answer; nothing too detailed, but enough that as the vegetables cook down, I can sense that his mind is traveling somewhere into the past. “Oh, you know, I just watched people here and there.” He adds the ground pork to the softened vegetable mix. “Ba’aa liked to play cards with other older males from the community. They would ask me to make snacks and food for them, and I would get some money from them here and there. That’s a lot of how I got my practice cooking,” he reminisces. I acknowledge his words with a thoughtful, “Mmm,” every now and again, taking care not to disrupt this time-traveling journey. He speaks, and I listen intently. Eventually the pork turns from pink to a light brown, and my father pauses his storytelling to announce, “Okay, let’s allow the mixture to cool before we begin wrapping the momos.” While we wait for the pot to cool, I find myself imagining a young version of my father hastily taking orders from the card players, eager to pocket some coin and please his father and the guests. Bringing my attention back to the present, I take a dough wrapper in my hands. I dip my index finger in a small dish of water, swirl it around the edge of the dough wrapper, then use my other hand to scoop some meat and vegetable mixture into the center. I struggle to wrap the first couple momos with even pleats, but slowly I find my rhythm. Wet the wrapper’s edges, scoop mixture, pinch shut, pleat. I repeat the sequence over and over again in my head until the process feels second-nature. Once my hands outpace the sequence in my head, my mind drifts to a similar scene in which I had envisioned my father cooking for guests as a kid. This time, I am the one cooking: I gather in my phoophoo’s (aunt’s) kitchen with my didis (sisters/cousins) and our mothers; we laugh and joke, swiftly wrapping momos without even paying attention to the movement of our hands. This version of me could probably neatly pleat momos in her sleep. “You’ll remember how to make this recipe for the next time you want momos, right?” my father asks. My attention shifts back to the present reality and I smile softly and nod my head in agreement. As my father removes the lid from the steamer pot and gently sets down the freshly wrapped momos to cook, I watch the steam frantically escaping and it dawns on me that our journey is almost complete– until our next recipe for connection. Editors: Sam Luthiya, Uzayer M., Joyce P. Image Source: Unsplash

  • not good friends, not good enemies

    Dear you, I don’t think I need to say your name. You know it’s you. You know it’s always been you. I’ve fallen for you again, isn’t it terrible? I remember the ‘us’ from last year, and I remember knowing, when I looked at you, that we’d end up like this. Do you remember? It was March, and you told me about your friend; the one who confessed to you. You loved her, not in the way lovers do, and I learned that day that there’s more to love than what I had figured out. You said, why does everyone have to tell me their feelings when they’re no longer there, and I promised that we wouldn’t end up that way. I’d be better than her. Am I? Look at us now. I’ve spent so long thinking about what to say to you that I never thought about what those words would be. There’s so much to say, don’t you think? I don’t remember how many days it’s been, how long I’ve spent waiting; how many times I’ve promised myself that it wouldn’t happen again; how many letters I’ve written and tucked away; and how many dates I’ve circled on my calendar and promised myself a confession. There is no such thing as missed chances between us, but I keep myself on edge, because what about— The portrait of me you drew on my Physics worksheet? The times you settled beside me when you found me on the ground so that we could be alone together? And the times we touched hands? The one time we hung out after school and I caught you watching me instead of the sunset? Did it mean anything to you? I still have your drawings on my worksheets. It’s been sixteen months. When I talked about you with a friend for the first time, she asked me, is it difficult? I looked up at her, and the look in her eyes was uncanny to pity. It was at that moment that I felt my heart sink in my chest, and I knew that I was only standing at the beginning of something destined to end. Are you okay? She rubbed my shoulder in a feeble attempt to comfort me over what seemed like nothing back then, and I remember not being able to muster an answer because the hundred things I wanted to say stuck to the walls of my throat. – It’s been exactly two years since we’ve met, and I remember the first time I fell for you. I was studying somewhere you wouldn’t find me, a place sufficiently out of your eyes’ reach. I was aware of how close I’d come to teetering into a boundary I shouldn’t be crossing, and I desperately wanted me to stop. The earphones wedged in my ears didn’t make the heat any more bearable, but I stayed because I managed to evade you for an hour and I was certain wherever this was would be the only place far away enough from you. I learned that that wasn’t the case. I looked away for a moment, and a beat later, you started walking out of class, then along the staircase on the level above me. Your friends were there. They waved at you, gesturing you over. You didn’t move from the edge of the staircase. You were asking for someone. You asked for me. When we locked eyes from across our separate levels, the rush my heart felt became a permanent feeling. – I saw you in my dream. I woke up, and every fibre of my being believed that suffering a nightmare would’ve taught me that loving you would bring no good out of it. But that’s the problem, isn’t it? I’m always counting on a reason to hate you, but we know I never will. Every unreplied text, every conversation cut short, every time you passed me in the corridors and didn’t wave back, every time I looked at you and you didn’t look back—they should’ve meant something. I wished that they did. Being there a second time made me think it would happen a third time and then again, and it would never stop. I hoped it would someday. – I’m sorry I couldn’t say this earlier. Then, I think about the way we wouldn’t be friends if I did, and I don’t feel sorry anymore. – I wish you hated me instead. Good morning, I wish you never greeted me, in your voice riddled with fatigue, while I settled into my desk next to yours. You came, I wish you never said every time I showed up to class, because you were the only one who cared if I did. Do you want to spend your time with me? I wish you never asked. Would these wishes have changed things, or would I have found another foolish way to love you? – It’s the end of it all. The end of ‘us’. We’re past this now—our history of two years. I should be happy, because I’m given the space I need to recover from ‘us’. Your class is located at a corner of the campus that you’ll be out of sight, and hopefully, out of mind. As it stands, there’s not a corner of this world that’s far enough to make me forget about you. I miss the intimacy that’s existing in a space with you. I know it’ll only bring me pain, and it’ll hurt much less if I can force my mind off you. But what will I do, then, when someone doodles on my worksheets and I think about you? What will I do when I look at another pair of eyes and think they’ll never gleam like yours do? What will I do when another hand holds mine and I hope with all my heart that they would be you? – I can’t let you go. You’re still my everyday. My every moment. – Please keep in contact with me. Text me back, maybe? Editors: Amber T. & Amshu V. Image source: S. Ruvalcaba, Unsplash

  • Vision in a Safeway Parking Lot

    TW: references to depression, anxiety, self-harm You’ll mark three breaths in time with the snake-spitting off the engine, which sounds like a pair of metal legs playing footsies under a table, ktch ktch ktch, until you turn it off. Carbon monoxide can be fatal. If the alarm sounds, please exit the garage in an orderly manner. Maybe the carburetor’s broken. You’ll look down to see your arm speckled like a snow leopard and yank your left sleeve up. You’ll grab a basket and reach back to tug up your hood. When it's on you are Fort Knox, only snugger. You’ll pull four cheap boxes of ramen, two yellow bell peppers, a MTWTFSS pill container, 99 cent deodorant, two IPA tallboys, and a Valentine’s card on the clearance aisle, which was two days ago. There'll be a woman using a walker with high-rimmed glasses and stains on her sweatpants and you'll keep passing her while you remember to pull down your sleeves lest her searching eyes scan your red craters that have buried into both your arms and you'll wonder if she knows how long you've been here and if she'll rip your hood from your head and claw your sleeves from your arms and berate you with that humble speak, that familiar familial dialect resurrected from the foothills of Mulshi. She never will. You'll count the times you pass her, and frantically rush to self check-out when she finally catches your gaze from the pharmacy line and nods carefully, bestowing her blessing, and you'll wonder how her calculating, clammy eyes suffused with oil had ever scared you. You’ll take the stairs down and stare up towards the white noise we've come to call fluorescence so little worms crowd your vision, like coughing too hard in the shower, and the blurriness makes you dizzy, intoxicated. At the bottom you'll flurry to the car with red eyes and hands-on-throat to stop the poison from pumping in. — Recently, I finally willed myself to sit down and read Crying in H Mart. As I had expected, I finished the memoir in one sitting and was left reeling with nostalgia and emotions. Michelle Zauner’s narration of being choked with memories that surface through the small things you spot has not left my mind, and hence we have this poem. My poem is a response in the conversation the memoir opened for me, and speaks of my own experiences walking down memory lanes along store aisles. Since moving to the US, the feeling of homesickness (but not really) only seems to hit me when I stand in front of the spice aisle in Safeway. It takes me back to how department stores, their parking lots and our car in it, especially after dark, were the first liminal spaces I was exposed to and used to be the first I sought out when I was attempting to avoid spiraling. Editors: Rajeshwari T. Image Source: Mick Haupt, Unsplash

  • Warm Regards,

    (distilled from student e-mails) I’m not feeling very well. I’ve been feeling ill all day. I am feeling very ill. I’m feeling rotten today after a long feverish night with little sleep. I have some problems with depression. I have been sick with some horrible bug for the last four days. I came down with the flu Sunday, and haven't been feeling okay all week. I woke up with a migraine this morning, and it's not getting any better so I’m breaking out the big guns – Zomig. I’ve been feeling sick for most of the weekend and woke up today with terrible back pain (old age you see) and a sore, swollen throat. I hit my head really hard at practice yesterday. I now need to wait for the rash on my face to go away. I’ve got a dentist’s appointment this morning in Beaverton. I was unable to attend class today due to a case of head lice, which I spent the day curing myself of. I got COVID at a concert last week, and am still recovering. I inadvertently drank rotten milk last night and woke up not feeling great. I suspect I ingested some chemicals during my shift at the ceramics studio, or maybe still need to recuperate from a persistent cold I can't entirely seem to shake off. Either way, I’m sick. It’s been a rough morning. Editor(s): Quill L., Rajeshwari T. Photo Credits: Unsplash

  • Pieces on Holidays & Traditions

    Foreword: Traditions and cultural celebrations make up much of my yearly highlights. From celebrating Lunar New Year with a cluster of extended family members to eating mooncakes on a quiet night during the Mid-Autumn Festival, my heritage has shaped many of my favorite experiences. I love learning about different traditions and holidays across cultures, and each piece in this Holidays & Traditions Collection provides deeper insight into the folklore, practices, and general history behind a myriad of Asian customs. Through this themed collection, I hope everyone can experience the heartwarming sensation of gathering with loved ones in a lively celebration of heritage and identity. —Emma Wong Thanksgiving Peking Duck by Kaitlyn Fa A heartwarming and empowering poem featuring mouthwatering imagery, divided into subsections based on food and its connection to family and identity, in order to combat anti-Asian notions. ““i’ll be ready / with my crown of duck / bejeweled with cucumber / wrapped in a sturdy pancake / and a side of boiled pride / to eat away ignorance / and reclaim my culture” Diwali by Siona Wadhawan An uplifting narrative intertwining the history of Diwali with the author’s personal experiences and childhood memories. “Dozens of tiny clay candles, or diyas as they are called in Hindi, litter the driveway. Each flame glows vividly, bathing in the pale radiance of the moon, transforming the pavement into a beautiful starry night.” Cultural Connections: How Transracial Adoptees Celebrate Lunar New Year by Amanda Winters An insightful spotlight on various Chinese adoptees’ experiences with the Lunar New Year, emphasizing the importance of bridging the gap of potential cultural disconnect. “As Chinese adoptees find new ways to come into their Chinese identity and celebrate the traditions of the culture that has been taken away, it is always important to keep sharing these stories not only for other adoptees, but for the larger Asian community as well.” The Process of a Tea Ceremony by Lex Kobashigawa A detailed description of the tea infusion process during a Gongfu tea ceremony, a preparation method originating in Fujian, near the Chinese province of Guangdong. The intricacies of each step are illustrated in careful detail, and the piece plays to all five senses, leaving readers feeling refreshed. “The first infusion was the most vibrant. An eternity of masterful brewing being poured into the aroma cup.”

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